Teach Young Girls that Marriage is not the Ultimate Goal of Life

In
Pakistan, people believe that marriage is an integral part of life. Their belief
relies on the Islamic teachings, which they might interpret wrong. Our Holy
Prophet (P.B.U.H) once said:

جب بندہ نکاح کرتا ہے
تواپنا آدھا دین مکمل کر لیتا ہے اب اسے چاہئے کہ جو باقی ہے اس میں اللہ سے ڈرتا
رہے۔( Al-Tirmidi- Hadith 3096)

People interpreted that marriage is the ultimate goal of life for completing the deen. Therefore, mostly parents teach their children that successful marriage is an achievement. It is the reason why parents start seeking the Pakistani rishta for marriage, when their children hit puberty. Especially, girls have been taught that marriage is compulsory in our society so they have to marry off to another’s home for bringing new family. This thinking propels the parents to find the online rishta in Pakistan for young girls and it becomes the major reason of young child marriage in Pakistan.

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Why You Should Raise Voice against Domestic Violence in Pakistan

It
is saddest reality of our patriarchal society that one out of three women is suffering
the domestic violence by in-laws and husband. Conformist parents mostly teach
their daughter that she has to bear everything for making her marriage
successful. Those parents mostly fix the girl rishta for marriage by just
seeing the boy’s financial status. In those abusive marriages, woman starts
transforming her life for avoiding physical and mental abuse. However, every
minor mistake leads to evil practices. Nevertheless, various awareness
campaigns are now giving consciousness to woman for her rights. Woman has the
right to stand against any type of violence. If man does any mental or physical
abuse then woman can take action by using Pakistani Laws. Mostly women think
that they cannot get the online rishta in Pakistan after getting divorce.
However, online matrimonial website can help you in finding the suitable online
rishta for second marriage.

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Validity of Divorce via Video call

Nikkah is the beautiful relationship between two people and it is supposed to last until death. People find their perfect soulmate from online shaadi service in Pakistan and want to live whole life with that ultimate life partner. However, divorce ratio has been increased in last few decades. The common reason behind such vigorous increase in divorce ratio in Pakistan is lack of equality, communication gap, misunderstandings, constant arguing and conflicts, unlikeness, cheating, extramarital affairs, money, etc. According to the civil law of Pakistan, court can grant divorce on three reasons, i.e.

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What To Make Sure Before Getting Marry In An Unknown Family Or Caste?

Most of the people assumed that Inter-caste marriages are futile on long term, as there are many differences of customs, traditions, and lifestyle. However, I encourage the inter-caste marriage system in Pakistan, due to numerous benefits of marrying off outside the family or caste. For instance, least chances of hereditary diseases to appear, diverse traits and features of offspring, healthy relation between two different families, and better social interaction Continue reading “What To Make Sure Before Getting Marry In An Unknown Family Or Caste?”

Marriages in caste system – Pakistani Marriage Culture

In Pakistan, there is a long debate occurring for arrange marriage Vs love marriage. As a developing country, Pakistan is facing numerous financial, economical and social challenges but inter caste marriage becomes one of the dominant social issues. Majority of castes is following the typical caste system of Pakistan, in which they can marry off their daughter or sister within the same caste. According to those extremists of caste system, they do not want to lose the purity of their caste. Well, it is the 21st century, in which revolution and modernization is coming. Therefore, the generation of this era does not accept these myths and notions. Although, exceptions always exist. If you are reading this blog then surely you are looking for some information regarding Pakistani marriage culture. So here we go! Continue reading “Marriages in caste system – Pakistani Marriage Culture”